ometimes it’s not even about what’s said. Sometimes, it’s what isn’t. Sometimes, in the exact moment when someone thinks they need to say something, that’s probably when nothing should be said; nothing about cancer, nothing about anything at all. Sometimes, it’s not about saying something; it’s about doing something. And sometimes it’s not even about doing something, its just about being there. Not saying, not doing, just being. Being a friend, being someone who cares, being available, or even perhaps being somewhere else entirely. Being is better than doing, which is sometimes a lot better than saying. You don’t need to know what to say. Trust me, you need a lot more to know what not to say.