Jo Hilder

Are you a writer? If you are, you may understand the funk I’m in. I’m a writer, except that sometimes, I don’t write. I do things related to writing, but they are not writing. They do not help the writing, in fact, they impede the writing. They are procrastination. They are self-imposed resistance. They are fun. But, sadly, not writing.

This is my second tattoo. My dragonfly. I’ve always loved dragonflies. They symbolise new beginnings. I got this tattoo many years after cancer and the Continue Reading

My first tattoo. Got it in 2008, five years after surviving cancer. I drew this design up myself, and the tattoo artist commented it was Continue Reading

I know you’re facing another day not knowing if you need to hold on or let go. I know the weight of trying to make Continue Reading

An essential part of brave-becoming is cultivating our capacity to sit with ourselves as both the healing, and the healer. The first-person identity of your Continue Reading

There will be times when you feel strongly about connecting with others and building ties and making relationships and being around people, and you’ll seem Continue Reading